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Sunday, July 21, 2019

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Extramarital Affair Is The Cancer Of A Society
Extramarital affair means making relationship with the married person after having life partner. It can be described in this way that a boy is unmarried and a woman is married or a girl is unmarried and a man is married or both man and woman has life partner nevertheless they are involved with the illegal relationship.
Extramarital affair is one of the biggest causes of unpleasantness in the family. It's increasing gradually in our country. Everyone should be sincere about this disease and there should be a strict law for the punishment of this unabashed crime. Because it's as like as cancer and sometimes it's bigger than cancer since cancer damages only one's body but extra marital affair destroys the whole family. It makes a family unhappy. Children have to suffer a lot. If wife is addicted to extra marital affair, husband has to suffer. Or husband is involved with this; wife has to suffer a lot.
Like wife, children don't get the affection of their father. A husband doesn't get pleasantness because of his wicked wife. Children have to be neglected because of their mother in the society. The parents are to be insulted because of their son or daughter.
Their siblings don't get proper accolade as their antisocial shameless activities. As a result many people commit suicide.
Extramarital affair is usually seen among the educated persons. It's less in the uneducated people. Educated people are involved in it in the name of independence and modern. I think what makes indiscipline and unpleasantness in the society is not modern activity. It can be counted as illiterate activity. And illiteracy is the darkness. Modern society will do remove the darkness from the world.
Why people are involving with this shameless activity! Our society and responsible people should identify the reasons. It can have many reasons.
Such as it can happen because of physical weakness of a man or he isn't capable of fulfilling his wife's basic needs. Basic needs can be food, dress, wealth and whatever she demands from her husband. Or wife has a problem of character.
Man can involve with this because of the wife's physical problem or she doesn't look beautiful in her husband's eye or husband has character problem. We can see a lot of people who are wealthy; beautiful and so on nevertheless they're making illegal relationship. So where is the problem?
Everything has solution and every disease has cures. Nothing is permanent in this world. If a disease be cured, problem also can be solved. Victims should identify the reasons and should take treatment properly.
Without using ointment in the proper injuries, it's never expected to recover from the severe disease.
So every person should obey the rules of respective religion because every religion wants to bring peace in the society.

Tufayel Ahmad
Rajshahi University